Friday, December 2, 2011

Can muslim say SALAM to non muslim

Can Muslim say SALAAM to non Muslim?

By: Khurshid imam

1. Introduction
One of the issues that are of much discomfort for our Hindu brethren is the issue of Salaam. Many Hindus complain that when they greet Muslims with Salaam or AsSalaam o alaikum then Muslims  don’t say walaikum asSalaam

On the other hand most of Muslims have the idea that a Muslim can not say Salaam or AsSalaam o alikum or walaikum asSalaam  to any non Muslims. One can find lot of fatwas (religious verdict) against saying Salaam to non Muslim. 

The same group of Muslims is also of the idea that it is prohibited to seek forgiveness or do dua of maghfirat to any non Muslims.

What is the reality if this issue? Can a Muslim say Salaam to non Muslim? Can a Muslim do dua (prayer or supplication) of forgiveness for non Muslim / mushrik / kafir? Let’s understand this issue with unbiased and open mind.

* Salaam  means ‘Peace’. AsSalaam  o alaikum means ‘Peace be upon you’. walaikum asSalaam   means ‘Peace be upon you too’.
* Mushrik means one who associates partner with God. 

2. Claim of some Muslims and the misunderstanding
Some Muslims claim that Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) has asked to not to initiate Salaam to non Muslims. People say that Prophet told us to say only walaikum when greeted by a non Muslim.

This wrong conclusion is the result of failing to derive correct guidance from hadees.
Claim of such people is based on following ahadees mainly:

A. Narrated AbuHurayrah Allah's Messenger  said: Do not greet the Jews and the Christians before they greet you and when you meet any one of them on the roads force him to go to the narrowest part of it. (Hadith - Sahih Muslim, Book 026, Number 5389)

B. 'A'isha reported that some Jews came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and they said: Abu'l-Qasim (the Kunya of the Holy Prophet), as-Sam-u-'Alaikum (Death be upon you), whereupon he (the Holy Prophet) said: Wa 'Alaikum (On you too). A'isha reported: In response to these words of theirs, I said: But let there be death upon you and disgrace also, whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: 'A'isha, do not use harsh words. She said: Did you hear what they said? Thereupon he (the Holy Prophet) said: Did I not respond to them when they said that; I said to them: Wa'Alaikum (let it be upon you). (Hadith - Sahih Muslim, Book 026, Number 5386)

By quoting these types of ahadees people arrive at the conclusion that:
a. A muslim should only say WALAIKUM when greeted by non Muslims.
b. A muslim should not initiate Salaam to non Muslims.

3. Reason for the misunderstanding
Again: the most commonly repeated mistake of the majority of Muslim is not understanding an issue UNDER THE PRINCIPLE OF QURAN. When people don’t look at Quran, don’t analyze what Allah has revealed, don’t ponder over how Quran has guided and directly try to reach at conclusion just by looking at hadees in isolation then they are bound to make mistake.

4. Ahadees under consideration
As far as above ahadees are concerned then following points should be very clear to all:

1. “Do not initiate Salaam with them….” - It is not difficult to understand that this injunction was specifically when Muslims were going to Banu Quraizah - who were in hostile terms with Muslims. And these Jews were the open enemy of Islam who has rejected the prophet hood of Prophet Muhammad even though prophet was alive among them. People who rejected Prophet Muhammad as Prophet were much severe in kufr (denying) compared to today’s non Muslims  – as far as rejecting prophet hood is concerned because that time Prophet was alive among them.

2. “……this hadîth relates to “a state of hostilities” which had erupted at that time against the Muslims. It was, in fact, at the time of the campaign against Banû Qurayzah. This is established by another authentic hadîth where the Prophet [peace be upon him] said: “…We are going forth in the morning against a group of Jews, so do not initiate the greeting of Peace with them….” [ Musnad Ahmad 26695 and Mu’jam al-Tabarani al-Kabir  22 / 291. See also Musnad Ahmad 16844 and.17584.]. Ibn Hajar al-`Asqalani relates the same from al-Bukhari’s al-Adab al-Mufrad and from’I while discussing this topic in “”.[.11./.39.]

3. The second hadees is very clearly mentioning why Prophet told walaikum. It says that since Jews wished death to prophet by saying "as-Sam-u-'Alaikum" i.e. death be on you so he replied Walaikum i.e. same to you. Is it difficult to understand why prophet said ONLY walaikum? Do non Muslims around you wish you by saying Death be on you? Obviously not. So this commandment of prophet was specific to a particular situation and not a general commandment for all non Muslims till the day of qiyamah.

4. If someone is hell bend on taking these ahadees without context, situation and background and argues - "No No! Since ahadees tells us not to initiate Salaam  to Jews and Christians so one should not greet ANY non Muslims " - then my argument is -  "OK, so using your understanding it can be said that hadees speaks about not initiating Salaam  to Jews and Christians; it does not prohibit initiating Salaam  to Hindus, jainis, Buddhist, Sikh etc - So it means one can say Salaam  to Hindus and all other non Muslims  except Jews and Christian - do you agree???" Can you get me fatwa from any scholar that saying Salaam to jews and Christians is prohibited by it is allowed for other faith people like Hindus, Buddhist, Sikh etc? It is very obvious you will not get such fatwa.

Also the first hadees also mentions that “when you meet any one of them on the roads force him to go to the narrowest part of it” – if you believe that this hadees injunction was for you also today then will you force your Christian friends or teachers to narrow path when you meet them in road? No! This instruction was temporary in nature for a specific case.

5. Also if you consider this commandment of Prophet to be generic in nature and for all non Muslims till the day of qiyamah then you should realize that this judgment contradicts Quran. Wait!!!! Don't open your fatwa bank. Have patience. Kindly read complete article to find out what ruling Almighty God has given to us in this matter. If Almighty God has guided us that we can say Salaam to non Muslims (Not each and every non Muslim) and seek forgiveness for them (Not each and every non Muslim) then can prophet go against the rulings of God? No! Never! Impossible.

6. The commandment of Prophet not to initiate greetings to SOME of non Muslims is in perfect harmony with the guidance of Quran (It is explained later). To what kind of non Muslims we should not initiate Salaam ? For what kind of non Muslims we can not do dua of forgiveness? Read these in later part of article.

5. Revisiting basics
A. Quran is NOT the book of history or story but it’s the book of guidance

Though Muslims  day and night swear that “Quran is the word of Almighty God, we should follow the teachings of Quran into our life, we should rule by Quran” - but when it comes to seeking guidance then first thing people do is set aside Quran and look at other sources.

Remember: Though quran contains science, history, mathematics, logic etc - its MAIN purpose is guidance of mankind. When it tells you events of past prophet and past community then it is not for only for information but it is for giving guidance. When Quran tells the crime of past community then you should not think that - "Ok! This was the crime of past community. thats it!!". No No! This incidence is mentioned in quran to warn you, so that you don’t commit error committed by past community, you should take guidance from these events. So the purpose of revelation for Quran is to get guidance and then rule your life by that.

" The month of Ramadhan in which was revealed the Quran, a guidance for the people and clear proofs of guidance and criterion ……." [Quran, Surah Baqrah 2: 185]

Please mark the purpose of Quran.
  1. It is for whole mankind. Quran is not exclusive property of any particular sect, religion, group of race.
  2. Quran contains clear proofs. The proofs given by Quran are self explanatory.
  3. Quran is for guidance purpose. We MUST seek guidance from Quran.
  4. Quran is the criterion – it means in any matter Quran will have the last say; what is right and what is wrong.
B. Those who don’t follow rulings from Quran are kafir and fasiq and zalim
Quran is word of Almighty God.
Quran is word of Almighty God.
Quran is word of Almighty God.

No wonder Muslims claim Quran to be word of God loudly but when it comes to ACTUALLY believing and practicing it they fail miserably.
Quran says that one MUST judge as per the revelation of Almighty God.

It was we who revealed the law (to Moses): therein was guidance and light. By its standard have been judged the Jews, by the prophets who bowed (as in Islam) to Allah’s will, by the rabbis and the doctors of law: for to them was entrusted the protection of Allah’s book, and they were witnesses thereto: therefore fear not men, but fear me, and sell not my signs for a miserable price. If any do fail to judge by what Allah hath revealed, they are Unbelievers (kaferoon). [Quran, Surah Maida 5:44]

We ordained therein for them: "Life for life, eye for eye, nose or nose, ear for ear, tooth for tooth, and wounds equal for equal." But if any one remits the retaliation by way of charity, it is an act of atonement for him. And if any fail to judge by what Allah hath revealed, they are wrong-doers (Zalemoon). [Quran, Surah Maida 5:45]

Let the people of the Gospel judge by what Allah hath revealed therein. If any do fail to judge by what Allah hath revealed, they are those who rebel (Faseqoon). [Quran, Surah Maida 5:47]
To you We sent the Scripture in truth, confirming the scripture that came before it, and guarding it in safety: so judge between them by what Allah hath revealed, and follow not their vain desires, diverging from the Truth that hath come to thee…….;[Quran, Surah Maida 5:48]

And this (He commands): you judge between them by what Allah hath revealed, and follow not their vain desires, but beware of them lest they beguile thee from any of that (teaching) which Allah hath sent down to thee. And if they turn away, be assured that for some of their crime it is Allah’s purpose to punish them. And truly most men are rebellious. [Quran, Surah Maida 5:49]

Above ayah of Quran make very clear that if we judge against the guidance of Quran then it is kufr / zulm / fisq / absolutely wrong. See how much emphasis Allah has given on judging from what he has revealed.

C. Quran permits saying Salaam  to non Muslims. It prohibits only for a certain types of non muslims
I know very well that i have taken much time before arriving at the crux of the article - the reason is: to remind Muslims about the basics of Islam. Muslims - by large- have abandoned Quran and that is what will be complain of Prophet on the Day of Judgment.
"Oh my Lord! My people have abandoned this Quran" Quran, Surah Furqan (25) - Ayah 30

Let’s see What Almighty God has told us about the greetings or saying Salaam or seeking forgiveness for non Muslims.

A. “When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally” [Quran – Surah al-Nisa’ 4:86]

In the above ayah Allah mentions a generic rule regarding greeting – that when anyone wishes you with a greeting then you should respond with better greeting.

B. “And the servants of (Allah) Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, ‘Salaam !’ (Peace).” [Al-Qur’an, Surah Furqan 25:63]

Here also Allah instructs us that as a good believer we should be humble and when dealing with jahil or ignorant (they may be Muslim or non muslim) we should say Salaam.

C. “And when they hear vain talk, they turn away there from and say: ‘to us our deeds, and to you yours; Salaam  u alaikum (peace be to you): we Seek not the ignorant.’ ” [Al-Qur’an, Surah Qasas 28:55]

Here again Almighty God instructs us that when vain talk or useless talk is going on then turn away from such group (they may be Muslims or non muslims) by saying AsSalaam  u alaikum.  Here also Quran proves that it’s allowed to say Salaam to non Muslims.

D. Then Allah makes crystal clear in the matter of saying Salaam to non Muslim or kafir or mushrik and also about doing dua of maghfirat for them i.e. seeking forgiveness for them.
And mention in the Book (the Qur'an) Ibrahim (Abraham). Verily he was a man of truth, a Prophet.
When he said to his father: "O my father! Why do you worship that which hears not, sees not and cannot avail you in anything?
"O my father! Verily there has come to me of the knowledge that which came not unto you. So follow me, I will guide you to the Straight Path.
"O my father! Worship not Shaitan (Satan). Verily Shaitan (Satan) has been a rebel against the Most Gracious (Allah).
"O my father! Verily I fear lest a torment from the Most Gracious (Allah) should overtake you, so that you become a companion of Shaitan"

He (the father) said: "Do you reject my gods, O Ibrahim (Abraham)? If you stop not (this), I will indeed stone you. So get away from me safely (before I punish you)."
قَالَ سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكَ ۖ سَأَسْتَغْفِرُ لَكَ رَبِّي ۖ إِنَّهُ كَانَ بِي حَفِيًّا

Ibrahim (Abraham) said: "Peace be on you! (AsSalaam  u alikum) I will ask Forgiveness of my Lord for you. Verily He is unto me Ever Most Gracious.
[Quran – Surah Maryam 19:41-47]

E. Finally Almighty God describes the universal principal regarding saying Salaam and seeking forgiveness for non Muslims.

It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allah's Forgiveness for the Mushrikun, even though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire.
And Ibrahim's (Abraham) invoking (of Allah) for his father's forgiveness was only because of a promise he [Ibrahim (Abraham)] had made to him (his father). But when it became clear to him [Ibrahim (Abraham)] that he (his father) is an enemy of Allah, he dissociated himself from him. Verily Ibrahim (Abraham) was Awwah (one who invokes Allah with humility, glorifies Him and remembers Him much) and was forbearing.
[Quran – Surah Tauba 9:113-114]

Here is the key to the whole issue. Few important points from above two references i.e Surah maryam 19:41-47 and Surah Tauba 9:113-114
1. Prophet Abraham invited his father to monotheism. His father was a mushrik who was committing shirk (Associating partner with Almighty God) knowingly. We know father of Prophet Abraham used to make idol for worship purpose.

2. His father rejected the invitation and got angry at Abraham. He threatened Prophet Abraham with stoning-to-death and asked him to leave. Thus in simple words – Prophet Abraham invited his father to the religion of God and his father rejected it thus becoming kafir.

3. But even then Prophet Abraham said Assalam u alaikum i.e Peace be upon you. Not only this, but also Prophet Abraham told that he will seek forgiveness for his father from Allah i.e he would do dua of maghfirat for his father. Imagine!

4. And afterwards when he became dead sure (After continuous and strong rejection of Islam by his father) that his father will never return to truth that he stopped praying for his father.

5. Allah gives a principal here that if you are dead sure that a person will never return to the truth then you should not seek his forgiveness or do dua of maghfirat or say SALAM.. Before this one CAN do dua of maghfirat or seek forgiveness from God or say Salam.

6. So in layman’s language: You think that this person has constantly rejected the truth of God after being explained about Islam many times and he will never ever return to deen of almighty God then you can NOT say Salam to him.
If it is not the case then you CAN do Salam or seek his forgiveness from God.

How many non Muslims around you fall under category - No Salam category? Hardly a few!!!!

D. Prophet’s instruction is as per quran
I hope now it is clear that which category of people were there for whom Prophet advised Muslims to not to say Salaam. Of course they were those people who fall under - No Salam category.

Prophet prohibited Muslims from saying Salam to those non Muslims who fell under the category mentioned by Quran in Surah Tauba 9:113-114
The prohibition of saying Salam to non Muslims will apply to ONLY this category of people about whom one is sure that he is going to be in hell.

6. Conclusion
1.      Saying Salaam means “AsSalaam -o-alaikum” i.e. May peace of Almighty God be upon you.
2.      Some Muslims have misconception that Islam does not allow saying Salaam to all non Muslims.
3.      Almighty God instructs us that one can NOT say Salaam or do dua of forgiveness for those mushriks (mushrik means one who associate partner with Almighty God) about whom you are dead sure that they are going to be in hell because of their constant rejection of truth. Under this category those people will come who have been very open and continuous rejecter of truth.
4.      To rest of non Muslims one can say Salaam or reply walaikum asSalaam .

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  1. Mashallah..very informative blog brother ..Jazakallah hu khair..

  2. AssalamoAlaikum brother Thanks alot for your post, I was really in search of this answer, Jazak-ALLAH...

    1. Walaikum assalam brother: so ur search ended here :))

  3. JazakalAllah this artical solve my problem thanks ....

  4. JazakalAllah .. Thanks allot my problem is solved..:)

  5. AslamoAlaikum. Being a non-muslim I realize this fact often that some of my muslim fellows do not greet completely or even don't say anything in return, which sometimes makes me worried.

    Your article is very informative, furnished with examples and worth to share.

    Srichand Sobhani

  6. Jazak Allah khair. Brother, I have been told by many "scholars" that it is haram to say salam or seek forgiveness for people of other faiths (even people from other sects) but reading all that above has enlightened me. Yet I will seek these references in a tafseer (Kanzul Eman) inshallah and return if it differs.

  7. Nice post with excellent explanation ....

  8. Jazakallah hu khair..

  9. Aslamo alaikum , one doubt
    One person say salam When eating a food give replay or not

    1. Walaikum assalam
      YES - you can reply even on food. There is no prohibition.

  10. I'm still not sure about no salaam category..i mean one cannot judge that who is going to hell for sure..if i say hindus or christians are..later if a hindu or any other non-muslim accept islam,Then?

  11. Very good point. Its true that we can not know that ultimately who will end up in paradise / hell. In case if Prophet Abraham - he would have been informed through wahi that his father will never return to truth. In our case - we can just make "assumption" based on the information available to us. If we are sure that this person has been told about islam very clearly, many times and every time he has rejected in spite of things being clear then we can say that he has done kufr. And such person will be in "no salam" category. It is possible that later - that person might return to islam. But we have to apply this issue based on the information that is with us.

  12. What kind of filthy religion is this? Wow! You idiots can't even say "hello" to a non muslims? That is why your societies are so full of filth.


  13. 1) It is impermissible to greet non-Muslims with the Islamic greeting of Assalamu Alaykum

    2) One may greet non-Muslims with the greeting they themselves use

    3) At times of need, such as the hope of one accepting Islam, it would be permissible to greet non-Muslims with the Islamic greeting

    4) If a non-Muslim greets a Muslim with the Islamic greeting, one should respond by saying Alaykum or Assalamu ala man ittaba’a al-huda. While doing so, one should pray that Allah Almighty guide him/her to embrace Islam.

    5) If a group consists of Muslims and non-Muslims, then it is permissible to greet them with the Islamic greeting. However, the intention should be to greet the Muslims only.

    And Allah knows best

    Muhammad ibn Adam
    Darul Iftaa
    Leicester, UK

    1. Assalamualaikum brother. I as a Muslim have faith in almighty Allah n I believe he is the Lord not only to Muslims but for the entire world including everything. If such is the case y should I not wish peace to non muslims as well. By greeting only Muslims I m confining my faith only to Muslims. Doesn't that contradict to what I believe n what I follow

    2. walaikum assalam sister. Did you read the post?